
Biography
::: Drew Pinsky :::
Dr. David Drew Pinsky, better known as Dr. Drew, was born September 4, 1958 in Pasadena, California. He is the oldest child with a sister, Dana, now a paralegal, who is six years younger. His mother, Helene, was a homemaker and his father, Morton, was a doctor. Drew used to go on house calls with his father and decided young that he wanted to be a doctor, too. Drew attended Polytechnic High School, a private school in Pasadena, before going to Amherst College in Amherst, Massachusetts. In high school, Drew played football and was class president. At Amherst, Drew majored in Biology. He graduated from high school in 1976 and from Amherst in 1980. Upon graduation from Amherst, Drew came back to California and attended theUniversity of Southern California School of Medicine. He graduated from USC in 1984. Drew served his residency at Huntington Memorial Hospital in Pasadena. He was appointed to chief resident at HMH. Now he is in private practice in Pasadena where his patients are 60+ years old and also does rounds at Las Encinas Hopsital.
He started doing the radio version of Loveline in 1983, when he was in his third year of medical school. KROQ was just a small, local station then. Now, Drew does the radio show Sunday through Thursday, 10:00 PM to midnight (Pacific Time). He started doing the MTV version of Loveline about 5 years ago. Drew tapes the shows on Fridays and Saturdays.
Dr. Drew met his wife, Susan, at a bar in Laguna Beach, California in the 1980's. She had a boyfriend at the time and turned sweet Drew down. He told her that if she every broke up with her boyfriend to call Drew. Drew was CRUSHED!!! After Drew started working at KROQ on Loveline, Susan started working at KROQ producing bikini fashion shows. Drew asked again. She accepted!!! Drew and Susan were married July 20, 1991. November 10, 1992, their children were born. They have triplets; Douglas, Jordan, and Paulina. The triplets were conceived by invitro fertilization.
In his little spare time, Drew likes to play with his children, read by the pool, play the piano, and sing opera (he's a baritone & he trained for 12 years).
Things that most people don't know about Dr. Drew are that he lost his virginity to his first girlfriend in 1974, when he was 16 years old. His favorite toothpaste is Crest, and his favorite shampoo is Paul Mitchell (thanks to SMAB). The glasses that rest on Drew's face are made by Mastuda, and he wears a type of underwear called Midways, they are long like boxers and tight like briefs (thanks to Dr. Drew). man who has nothing for which he is willing to fight; nothing he cares more about than he does about his personal safety is a miserable creature who has no chance of being free, unless made and kept so by the exertions of men better than himself."
Biography
::: Adam Carolla :::
Adam was born May 27th, 1964, in Pennsylvania, then moved to North Hollywood, California with his family when he was young. His parents divorced in the 1970's. Adam played football at Walter Reed Junior High and North Hollywood High School. After high school, Adam went to junior college to major in ceramics. He later dropped out.
Adam is best known as the really funny guy behind the the radio show Loveline. Now, Adam and his co-host, Dr. Drew have taken the successful radio show to television. Loveline is on MTV, where Adam and Dr. Drew continue to dispense their original style of advice and humor on love, romance, relationships, and sex. For Adam, becoming qualified to discuss issues surrounding matters of the heart in a fun, yet sincere manner is a combination of upbringing and a good sense of timing. His father is a psychologist and his grandmother was a sex therapist (now retired, she's in her 80's for crying out loud). To perfect his timing, Adam, spent years of training with the famous Groundling and Acme Improv, comedy groups in Los Angeles. He also spent considerable time on the boards as a stand-up comedian appearing at the world famous Comedy Store and the Improv, also in Los Angeles. Adam is also an experienced carpenter, boxing instructor, and carpet cleaner!! With a dynamite left hook and a knockout sense of humor, Adam developed the character "Mr. Birchum, the shop teacher" which he brought to the Keven and Bean morning show on KROQ-FM in Los Angeles. "Mr. Birchum" has since become a part of the landscape of Los Angeles radio. Adam, raised in North Hollywood, enjoys sports and is an accomplished writer who has sold a variety of episodes of "The Animaniacs" to Warner Brothers. He also loves anything done by Aaron Spelling and believes the best written show on the air is "The Simpsons." Carolla has a simple philosophy, "Figure out what to do, then take a nap."
Now, Adam is the accomplished author of the Dr. Drew and Adam Book: A Survival Guide to Life and Love. He also has an accomplished television and radio career going. He is on Loveline on KROQ, Loveline on MTV, and the Man Show on Comedy Central.

1. What should I do if I think I might be
gay?
Dr. Drew: This is a common thing. We encouraged young people who have same sex feeling to not feel threatened or alarmed by them and to understand that pretty much everybody at some time in their development will have same sex attractions. Women particularly will confuse warm, intimate feelings with physical attraction.
We generally tell people not to act out on those feelings of confusion. Just because they have the same sex attraction doesn't mean they're bisexual; it doesn't mean they're gay. It may mean they're going thru usual development. This may be awakening of homosexuality or they may just be confused and ambivalent. If they still have ambivalence about their sexual orientation at nineteen or twenty and oh by the way, they tell us they had a terrible trauma that contributed to that that's confusion about sexual orientation and identity.
2
.Why shouldn't I act on those fellings when they first present themselves?
Dr. Drew: Because the average person having those feelings at fifteen or six- teen, if he or she has sex, is going to worsen his or her confusion. Let's say a clearly homosexual or heterosexual person chooses to have sex at fifteen or sixteen: That in itself is going to be traumatic for them because they're not quite developed to be able to handle it, even with a clear-cut sense of them- selves and their sexuality. Even people who are clear about their sexuality can be adversely affected by getting involved physically at a young age. Now, if they're acting out when they're confused, that will only contribute to difficulty and confusion in development. We don't discourage a twenty-year-old from experimenting. Maybe you are gay. If you're really having strong feelings for guys, women, whoever, so be it. Maybe this is part of a burgeoning homosexual orientation; maybe you're bisexual. By that age, one should have a much clearer sense of one's identity, sexual or otherwise. But if it's someone who's twenty and they were sexually abused at five and have talked to us about their confusion, we're going to say, "Look, there's going to be a lot of chaos in your relationships. Be careful. Try to stay with one person. Get some therapy and see if that confusion doesn't sort itself out."
Adam: We don't talk to that many homosexuals who haven't had some form of abus{' in their lives. Now you've got to realize that they're talking to us because they have a problem; they're not happy that they're gay. So this isn't all gay people we're talking about. I really used to be under the impression that you were either gay or you weren't and that was about it. What the hell could you do? It's the way you were born and 1 didn't think much about it. But I realize now that a fairly large percentage-or a much higher percentage than people either know or will admit-a large percent- age of bisexuals, gays, and lesbians have had less-than-satisfactory childhoods and that has been a factor in determining their sexuality. But it's not politically correct to say, "The reason you're gay is because you were molested."
Dr
Drew: Again, this is based on the people we speak
to.
3. I've always dated women, and want to get married one day and have kids. But recently I've met a guy while I was on a business trip. We kind of hit it off and I guess we wound up being intimate. Am I gay?
Dr. Drew: I have heard this story from many gay men, both in clinical set- tings and casually, that particularly these young males or young adults didn't want to be gay, Not that they didn't acknowledge their gay feelings. But they just wanted so badly to fulfill the image of the adult they expected to grow up to be. And that included wife and kids; many of them go so far as getting married and having kids.
Adam:
I wouldn't intellectualize the decision too much. If you label yourself, then you sort of have to c'om- mit to one lifestyle or the next, and then you may go against whatever your impulse is. But I wouldn't try to map it out now. And yes, I think if you gave a guy a blow job on a business trip, you are gay. But I don't understand that. I mean, if that isn't what your proclivity is, why would you do it? I'll hear guys say, "Yeah, I slipped up, I had a beer, I was at a party, one thing led to another." To me that just means you are in de- nial. What I'm saying is: You are either in or you are out. You go on a business trip, you go away for a couple of days, you give a guy a reach-around-you are in. Which is fine. Just go ahead and say, "That's what I do." No problem.
Janeane: There are so many married gay people that we see. And a lot of them are very famous because there are many famous people who can't possibly admit that they are gay, and they have wives and children.
Dr. Drew:
Why is that?
Janeane:
Fear.
Dr. Drew:
Fear of rejection if they show their real selves?
Janeane:
I don't know if there are still so many people in 1998 who can't bear the thought of being gay.But I think it goes back to bad parenting. Some people are scared of their parents.
Dr. Drew: I think this guy is probably gay, and that he isn't really accepting that yet. I would look very carefully at what his sexual orientation is before I did something like get married.
5.
Are you either gay or straight? Or are there true bisexuals?
Adam: If you're a guy, you're either gay or you're straight.
Dr.
Drew: I think there is such a thing, but it's much easier for a woman to be bisexual for a number of reasons, both sociological and psychological. There is such a thing as a mature bisexual orientation, but it's relatively uncommon. The most common thing we see is the homosexual male who doesn't want to accept his sexual orientation. So he keeps trying to have a heterosexual life. Or it's someone who has a good deal of ambivalence about his sexuality, usually from some sort of sexual or physical abuse from his childhood.
6.
When should you come out?
Adam: After your folks die.
Dr. Drew: You should be coming out when you're clear in your orientation. When you're planning to commit to that lifestyle. Probably when you have a stable relation- ship, when you have a sufficient network of supportive peers of a similar persuasion to fall back upon, to relate to, to give you support when you stand up and get counted. Because there will be a reaction. You will have people hurting you. And if you don't have the right support there, it could be devastating.
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